[SONGS ONLY YOU KNOW is a] gritty, gripping punk-rock memoir… nuanced and poetic. It’s funny at times, always brutally honest; a half-healed bruise, tender and multi-colored. Few books convey the fever-pitch intensity of youth with such vividness and so little glamorization, or as deeply explore the heartbreaking complexity of family — both those we’re born into and the ones we choose.